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Historically, the rise of romantic love as a marital ideal has sometimes been perceived to be associated with greater gender equality, as changes in expectations for and practices in marriage are tied to the erosion of a highly sex-segregated division of labor. In many settings, transformations in the dynamics of marital intimacy have been interpreted as offering women the possibility of utilizing Need sexy woman on a post property leverage with their husbands to negotiate more equitable domestic arrangements CollierHirschRebhun But in Nigeria changes in marriage and in the public and private dimensions of gender asymmetry have not occurred uniformly or beyond the continuing influence of powerful kinship systems and structures of inequality.

Further, once a couple is married, kin relationships frequently impinge on contemporary conjugal life, perhaps most overtly with regard to fertility and parenting. A gendered division of labor continues to characterize many spheres of Nigerian social life, even as urbanization, formal education, and broader trends toward individualism produce changes that push against entrenched gendered social organization.

In marriage, women are constrained in many ways they did not experience when they were single, even as they have new powers, having achieved a status that is highly valued. These changes, Johnson City massage girls the ways women adjust to them, Ladies looking nsa Reminderville Ohio 44202 the complex and multivalent dimensions of gender dynamics in the context of contemporary Nigerian courtship and marriage.

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But the expansion of formal education and the economic reality that le almost all families to encourage young adults to seek livelihoods to support themselves—and often their parents and siblings—have created a situation where large s of young women live independently of their kin. Although many young women face both social and economic pressure to have premarital sexual relationships, Free sex Fort Smith Arkansas do nice women exist in my hood also seem to experience their sexuality as a resource and, of course, often a source of pleasure that they control CornwallSmithLuke In contrast, married women are made to feel—by their husbands, their families, and society—that as persons they are above all wives and mothers, and that their sexuality, their mobility, and their social and economic agency are circumscribed by the fact of their marriage.

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Igbo society expects a wife to be faithful to her husband and devoted to her children.

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